Today is Mother’s Day, 2021. What are you doing for your day? I’m writing to get the word out about a very important topic to not only Mom’s but also to Dad’s, children, Grandmom’s and Granddad’s everywhere.
We were created for such a time as this, so goes a verse in the book of Ester in the Bible. I have heard this over and over. Even got the t-shirt. O.k. maybe not the t-shirt but I did get the coffee mug. What does that verse mean to you?
To me, it means fighting for my rights and my child’s rights to have an integrative medical approach for any and all conditions that we might have. My youngest son happened to be born with two copies of the aberrant genes for Cystic Fibrosis. In a nut shell this genetic mutation causes mucus to be thick and stick instead of thin and slippery. Mucus is EVERYWHERE in the body, not just the nasal passages and lungs, but everywhere you can imagine as it keeps processes moving along or not moving in the case of Cystic Fibrosis.
So what’s a Mom to do when faced with a life threatening disease in her child? Pray. A lot. What do I do Lord? I first got prayer at a BBQ my small church “life” group was having on a balmy Sunday summer evening. “The Lord wants to absorb your grief” said my friend who began praying over me and my son.
And He did. HE ABSORBED my grief, so I could function and keep on keepin’on as they say here in Texas. I have not cried one more tear over my son’s diagnoses since that very evening.
What do I need from you? To please rally around me and my son in prayer, but not just for us but for our entire broken medical system to be revamped to include plant based care alongside pharmaceuticals when necessary. For choices to be just that, choices.
Without going into gory detail, I have been under the thumb of the medical model in this country through the court systems and have had to use pharmaceutical care almost exclusively and have had my other options almost completely eliminated. Coming against the establishment is not an easy thing to do, but with God all things are possible.
Please pray for God’s will to be done and that no longer will children be taken from their parents for exercising their choice in how they care for their health. I’m not talking extreme here, but I am talking taking down the established assumptions that all medicines are o.k. for my child. That he just has to get used to the awful side effects and then expect to take yet another medication when those side effects get to be too much for him.
CPS has been called on me no less than three times because I exercised my rights to assess and determine what was best for my son. I would say “our son” to include Dad, but right now he is on the other side of the table. My heart is broken over this.
Please if you would,
- pray for all parents and people everywhere to have the right to freely choose their medical care. No fear tactics utilized by medical system.
- pray that all physicians would be trained in natural care extensively as well as pharmaceutical care. That Big Pharma will no longer rule the medical system and schools.
- Pray for my son to get on the best regimen for HIS system. Pray for his and my strength and courage to win a landmark decision validating a parents right to choose the treatment path.
Dear God,
I am writing this letter today to tell you that I am done.
Done with the pain, the angst, the anxiety, the will to live.
Ever feel like that? Yeah, me too. Which brings us to the point of social media’s great #metoo. What is it about being understood that feels so good to our hearts and minds?
The human condition.
The human condition.
Being understood does something for our souls that nothing else can. Validation is another word that comes to mind. What is it that you would like me to know?
Have you been hurt beyond belief? Friends betray you? Husband leave you? Family disown you? I have experienced all three. Yup. In fact twice to the husband part. There is nothing quite like a partner who has taken a vow with you leaving you in the middle of the night, or in my case when I left the apartment we lived in, for a quick job interview, to come back to a note telling me that he had to go.
The pain of that season is like nothing else I can recall. That is until the memories of childhood sexual abuse began to spill out. Don’t get me wrong, they did not start spilling out like a movie on a movie screen, but in bits and pieces. Sometimes a snap shot, but most often for me, as body memories. There, I said it. It makes me sick just to write the words.
Childhood sexual abuse.
What makes it even worse is the sickening feeling I get when I think about how my family disowned me.
Was it the right thing I did by coming forward to tell my father about my memory that had surfaced? No question it was.
I was unable to keep on the mask any longer after finding out he had sexually abused me. It has taken years to unravel the details, as there was a lot of other abuse getting in the way so to speak. You see, we are kind of like an onion, and when you start to find out about abuse that happened to you in your younger years, you may also find that you need to first peel back the layers of some older years.
What do I mean by that?
You may first need to open up your mind to the possibility of abuse that could have happened to you as an adult even, because that may need to be dealt with first. How do you do that? Aroma Freedom Technique. What’s that you ask? It is a technique for getting to the “junk”. When I went to my weekend of training, the process was unraveled to me or should I say my mind was unraveled.
Events that did not seem to have any connection came to mind, eventually connecting pieces of a puzzle, only the pieces did not form a beautiful picture, they were pictures of the same issue over and over again.
Rejection.
Abandonment.
Sexual abuse.
If you allow yourself to try this process, I can lead you through sessions where you will cover a lot of ground in under two hours. Sessions typically last one and a half hours to include time to wrap up and get our next time set up on the calendar.